Posted by 27 years old, what should it look like?
Youthful?Cheerful?Enjoy life?
But for this Holly Butch-er who lives in Brisbane, Australia, 27 years old has become the end of life.
She originally liked to make friends and travel, leaving different footprints in many corners of the world. She is also a squash and hockey player and has always had a good physical fitness.
but……
No one thought that last year, Holly was diagnosed by doctors with a cancer called Ewing’s sarcoma (mostly in young people). The disease quickly ruined Holly’s body. She was a girl who was alive and kicking. In time, it was already difficult to get out of bed and walk around, and he was extremely sick.
At the time of Holly's death, Holly's family took her to the beach. Holly, accompanied by her family, passed away peacefully.
The day before Holly's death, she left an open letter on her Facebook homepage. It was just a thousand words, but it was touching and thought-provoking.
"A little life advice from Holly:
When you are 26 years old, you may not think that one day you will face death.
For a 26-year-old young man, death is always a neglected matter, the days just pass by day by day, you always hope it will continue like this.
Before the day of the accident, I had imagined countless times how I would age in the future:
I will have a happy family, full of children and grandchildren, although there will be wrinkles and gray hair, this is the life of my dreams.
But this is life. It is so fragile and precious, and at the same time full of unforeseen challenges. Every day is a gift from God, not something we should get.
I am only 27 years old this year. I still don’t want to leave this world like this. I love my life. I am happy every day. I owe a lot to those who love me and those who love me in my life. But all this is the right to decide. Not in my hands.
I did not give myself a list of "things to do before I die" because that would make me afraid of death, and I chose to ignore the fact that I was about to leave this world most of the time.
And sometimes, I want to talk about this topic again. I hope people don’t worry about the meaningless little pressures in life. No matter what your life is like, you have to remember our ultimate destiny. It is toward death, so during the time you are still alive, please be less nonsense and anxiety, so that every minute and second of your time will be worthwhile, and live a great and valuable life.
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Maybe at this moment, you are experiencing a bad day—the traffic jam on your way to work, the baby kept crying and you couldn’t sleep well last night, or the hairdresser accidentally cut your hair too short, you I feel that your breasts are not full enough, or your butt is too big, and your belly is protruding...
Maybe you are experiencing something that makes you feel uncomfortable at this moment, but believe me, when you stand in my position and look at the whole life, you will find that all this is insignificant.
At this moment, I look at my seriously ill body, but there is nothing I can do. I have no other ideas. I just want to have another birthday with my relatives, or a Christmas. I also want to be with my lover and dog. A good time to live together for one more day.
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Be grateful for every day in your life. When you spend a day without illness, you should be grateful to God, and occasional physical discomfort: catch a cold, twisted feet, etc., learn to accept it, be grateful for these illnesses will not kill you , And will disappear on its own.
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Work for the sake of living, not to live for the sake of work.
To be honest, you have to do everything that makes your heart feel happy.
Don't feel guilty if you want to eat cakes
If you don't want to do something, just refuse it boldly.
To the person you love, you must express your love in time, as long as you have the opportunity, you must tell him I love you.
At the same time, you must remember that you have the ability to change the status quo and have the courage to fight for it.
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Perhaps this is life!Only when you have experienced it will you hurt, you will understand, and you will work hard to tell others the last bit of effort.
As a practitioner in the insurance industry, while praying for this girl, there are some things that I have to say:
1. At the age of 27, the most beautiful age in the eyes of the world. He had a healthy body before the accident, but he never survived an illness.And under the multiple pressures of work and life, we who are generally sub-healthy, how much confidence do we have to ensure that we do not get sick?
You know, just take the scariest cancer as an example: The latest report of China's urban cancer data in 2017 shows that about 1 people are diagnosed with cancer every day in the country, an average of 7 people every minute!By the age of 85, a person’s cumulative risk of cancer is 36%! The incidence rate increases rapidly after the age of 40, and reaches the peak at the age of 80...
2. Diseases never happen or not happen due to age, accidents never choose to walk around or be positive because of your health or unhealthy, but any one of us has a home behind us, when everything happens unexpectedly , What are the consequences, has anyone ever thought about it?
▼ In the process of treating serious illnesses, there are many check-up and treatment items, and drugs with good curative effects and small side effects are self-paid drugs, and social security will not reimburse them.
▼ Rituxan is a medicine that doctors must recommend for the treatment of lymphoma. The price of a single medicine is about 2.5, and a course of treatment is 5 medicines.
▼ NEXAVAR for the treatment of kidney cancer and liver cancer, 1 box per month, 2.3 per box, need to continue to be taken until the patient can no longer benefit clinically.
▼ The oncologist also believes that a person with cancer needs at least 40 medical expenses to be enough.
In addition to the price of medicines, once surgery or organ transplantation is required, the cost is even more alarming:
▼ Acute myocardial infarction: Early detection of 36, vascular recanalization operations of more than 15, an average of 27.
▼ Coronary artery surgery: a bridge is more than 15 yuan, an average of 22.5 yuan.
▼ Important organ transplant operations: more than 30 yuan for kidney transplantation; more than 60 yuan for liver transplantation.
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In addition, one-third of cancer treatment costs are direct costs, and two-thirds are indirect costs (rehabilitation costs, income loss costs).During this period of serious illness treatment, someone needs to take care of it, and nutrition needs to keep up. At this time, the nursing and living expenses are very high, so the cost of good rehabilitation still needs 20 to 40.And not only can I not work, my family members may also have to take time off for care.
So, for ordinary families, in order to avoid poverty due to illness, in addition to social security, how to prepare this money to survive the catastrophe safely?
A. Deposit 50 cash in the bank at a time to prepare a health fund. (Fixed deposit)
B. Deposit 2.5 yuan in the bank every year, and you must persist in depositing it for 20 years before you can get sick. (Instalment deposit)
C. Compulsory savings of 1 yuan (or even less) per year, and deposit for 20 years, immediately enjoy a high guarantee of 50 yuan until life.In case of illness in the middle, the subsequent expenses can be exempted. (Insurance Deposit)
Maybe I don't need to say more, many people will choose C!because:
1. For you and me, very few people can save so much money at once. Even if they do, financial products that face the temptation of high interest rates on the market will inevitably be embezzled.
2. Although depositing 2.5 to the bank every year is okay for most families, how many can persist in depositing for 20 years?Even if there is, if an accident happens or a serious illness occurs just after depositing for one or two years, the bank canWill not give us 50 for emergency, at that time, are we going to give up treatment?Or do you expose your pain to the public for help?What's more, if you have a mortgage that has not been paid off, once the bank finds that you have not paid it over the due date and cannot afford to pay, it may even take your house away!
Of course, in addition to health insurance should be necessary, accident insurance and life insurance must also keep up, because that may be the last love for the family.
As such a dialogue:
Some people say: What's the use of buying insurance? You lose money when you die!I replied: Do you say that a blind person needs to light a lamp at home?He said: Of course it is necessary; I asked: Why?He explained: Because the blind man still has his family at home!What a simple truth, we should not only live for ourselves, because there are still family members! ! !Insurance is the light in the dark. Sometimes you may not see this light, but it can illuminate your family and give them warmth!Because we have to take responsibility for children, lovers and parents!
